I asked her, which we often do, "what motivates you to
continue to make change". She looked at her mom and said, “Can I tell her?” and
her mom said, "Of course!"
She told me that when she is done with the program, she
wants to go clothes shopping and get new clothes – and not just any new
clothes. She wants a cute sweatsuit that she can wear on the plane to visit
family over the summer. Normally this is an expectation that I try to manage
and perhaps even discourage but in this case it seemed fine. She reassured me, without prompting, that
this was not the main reason she was in the program but it was what motivates
her when she feels discouraged – after all, as Sammy said, clothes are very
important in 7th grade…
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